I knew I was terrible with women since I was 14 and Stacey Butler said “It’s not you it’s me, because I think of you like a brother and we’re just such good friends I don’t want to spoil what we’ve got but you’re really nice and ANY girl would be lucky to have you”.
From then on it was like all women were pre-programmed to deliver a mixture of those same rejections every time I tried to escalate past being friendly.
But I wasn’t *bad* with Women. They were comfortable around me, opened up to me, trusted me. I preferred their company to that of guys and a lot of the time they preferred mine.
When I started Googling for ways to improve my game and ways to stop being friend-zoned by every girl I actually liked I quickly realized my disdain for the Internet’s “pick up artist” underworld and it’s disrespect for Women.
- “Fuck any girl in under 60 seconds”
- “How to date multiple Women and keep them coming back for more”
- “How to make her beg you for sex”
- “This strategy will open their legs and make her in to your never ending sex slave while she just irons, cleans and cooks and calls you Sir Big Dick”
… ok, that last one I made up. But you get my point.
I didn’t want to trick women in to sleeping with me. I didn’t want to manipulate women anddamage their self-esteem.
I wanted a well thought out and tested methodology for progressing with the women I already adored and respected from just friend to actual girlfriend.
I soon discovered that to do that required three things:
I needed to learn to
- Approach women correctly (I learned how to not fear this step like 99% of men)
- Engage them without scaring them (Most men make 1 mistake here that makes them seem creepy).
- Demonstrate value (You have to appear of high value without bragging – and there are 3 main ways to do this)
- Escalate it to the next stage (Without getting friend-zoned! .. it’s so easy to avoid when you know how)
That simple strategy was the foundation I built everything on.
And as Einstein once said “You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.” – and here is my addition to that quote. You have to first REALIZE there are rules. Until you understand there is a structure to all human interaction there is just no way you can even compete.
I was lucky enough to discover this because of Christian Hudson, a pick up artist with a difference. He is the kind of guy who doesn’t ooze “creepy douchebag” like half of the pick up community and I felt confident enough in him as a person to dive deeper in to his Girlfriend Activation System.
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